HOW TO TELL IF YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING IN THE NYC AREAOctober 27, 2020
Through a Queens Private Eye’s Eyes
We’ve all heard the story before. A friend is crying on your shoulder because her spouse is cheating on her. You think that sucks, but I’m so glad I don’t have to worry about that.
But then you start to notice some strange things for yourself. Your husband only works over the bridge in Manhattan, yet it takes him hours to get home to Long Island City one night out of nowhere. He could walk over the bridge in 45 minutes, so why all of a sudden does it take five hours to get back? He comes in all smiles and carrying flowers as a “surprise.” You try not to be skeptical, but it is totally out of character.
A few weeks go by, and he is suddenly going to be working all day on a Saturday. He’s never done that before. He gives you some vague excuses and heads out. He’s showered and shaved and dressed up better than usual. He starts an argument out of nowhere over something stupid, then leaves. You check your “find my friends” app. He’s headed in the opposite direction from his office. When you confront him and ask why he was in Floral Park, he gets all defensive and accuses you of being over-reactive. “I had to pick up a co-worker who was having car trouble.” You ask, “what, co-worker?” He mentioned some random name he’s never mentioned before. If it’s some “friend” worth driving all the way to Floral Park to pick up, don’t you think he would have mentioned them before? The next day you discover that he has disappeared off your “find my friends” app altogether. Maybe he has a new “friend,” and you deserve to know if he does.
The red flags are popping up right and left, and all you have are questions which he apparently has no answers to. What do you do now? You call a Private Investigator that specializes in cheating surveillance. But not just any detective. You need someone that knows the difference between Inwood Manhattan and Inwood in Nassau County on Long Island. That’s why you need to call Investigreat. My husband and I were born and raised in the area and know the differences and how to blend into the area so that your spouse will have no idea that their “secret” will no longer be a “secret” for long. We are subtle and can “hide in plain sight” to find out firsthand what they are doing and who they are doing it with. We get the answers that he won’t give you (and does not want you to have). Knowledge is power, and when dealing with someone that is not being truthful, you need to confront him once you have the proof – that is what will put you in control of a situation that he is currently controlling. That’s not right, and that’s not fair to you. You deserve the truth. If he doesn’t give it to you, then we will.
All too often, we hear these stories. He says he’s just going to hang out with the guys in Brooklyn by Coney Island, but instead, a friend says, “Hey, I just saw your husband in Jamaica Queens when I was visiting my cousin.” Red flag. He suddenly has to pick something up for work in the Bronx when he never goes to the Bronx. Red flag. He’s going on a fishing trip with the guys in Long Beach when he’s never fished a day in his life – he doesn’t even have a fishing pole! Red flag. He doesn’t come home from an assignment in Westchester until late and then shows up with flowers – which he never does. Red flag.
Any more flags, and you’ll have a parade! What are you waiting for? You need to call us so we can give you the truth. You need to know if this is a string of coincidences or he’s being unfaithful to you. Quite simply, we are the right detectives for the job. We blend into any neighborhood. A good investigator is like a good actor. They go into an area and play the part of a neighborhood person that just happens to be in the area when your husband comes strutting out of a building or walking down the street with someone that is not you. We have all the tricks to get the results. We know what angle to park at, what type of vehicle to bring, what clothes to wear. We don’t get an academy award for our blending in skills; we get something better – the “money shot.” That invaluable moment in time when the cheater lets his guard down and gives us the opportunity to catch him in the act, and that’s all we need. We then supply you with everything you need to make the next move and choose how to proceed. You deserve the truth so that you may make the right choices going forward. We are here for you. We want to help you get the truth. If your gut is telling you something is not right, then most likely it is not. We will assign someone to your case that will work directly with you from beginning to end. We work together as a team to get the best possible results. When you need the best, you need us. The only thing left is to contact us. The truth is just a call or text away. We are waiting. The rest is up to you.
Investigreat, LLC is a recognized full-service Private Investigation Agency that is fully licensed, insured, and bonded in Jamaica, Long Island City, and CT, handling cases in Queens, NY, Brooklyn, NY, the Bronx, Manhattan, Long Island NY and all of Connecticut. Terri Dornfeld, along with her husband Adam, have been working cases from missing persons and surveillance to worker’s compensation and all general investigation services since 1992.
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